In this Wednesday Sept photo an Afghan police officer looks for his colleague at their checkpost covered with pictures of late Afghan President Burhanuddin Rabbani at the Panjshir Valley In Sept a suicide bomber killed the former president head of the council tasked to talk peace with the Taliban As the US and NATO mark years of war in Afghanistan a grim picture emerges from scores of interviews over six months across the country with ordinary Afghans government officials soldiers and former and current Talibanbr